Thursday, September 21, 2006
Updates..
Hi there
Had not blogged for quite a while. The past few weeks had been extremely packed with school work and my insurance sales work. In the process, i had also come to realise something that is so true.
" When people say that they don't care, they really don't care!!! "
What does it mean? In the course of our lives, we will no doubt come across and meet friends. But what is really surprising is that some friends whom you thought you knew for some time, they actually don't care a heck about you. I had some encounters with it and as a result, i am now immune so such encounters. So the bottom line is, care for friends who genuinely care for you too. Invest your time in friends who deserve it.
On asking Empowering Questions
I recently met up and linked up with a friend on msn and in school. Had a cup of coffee with him in Canteen A and i shared with him this thing about reframing and asking empowering questions instead of disempowering questions.His MSN nick name is
" Will Robo XXX ever get a date this time round?? " This is what in NLP terms we classify as a disempowering question. By asking yourself this question, we restrict the brain to thinking that we can't get a date. The fact about that mind and brain is that, whatever you believe and ask yourself, IT BECOMES YOUR REALITY!
A more empowering question will be
" How can Robo XXX get a date in 2 weeks and have fun in the process ? " Do you see the difference? Lets start to change our lives by asking more empowering and effective questions!
On Jogging and the Standard Chartered Run
Went on monday to sentosa for an evening jog with Joo Khoon and his friend Eric. Ran a total distance of about 7km. Felt really good after the shower, the kind of refreshed feeling. Found out that they actually have a jogger's community of 10 plus people where they meet regulary to jog and etc. I guess it's good because at least for future races, i know who to look for to join together instead of having to find people. Looking forward to know more of them.
Live WIth Passion
Junxiong
Had not blogged for quite a while. The past few weeks had been extremely packed with school work and my insurance sales work. In the process, i had also come to realise something that is so true.
" When people say that they don't care, they really don't care!!! "
What does it mean? In the course of our lives, we will no doubt come across and meet friends. But what is really surprising is that some friends whom you thought you knew for some time, they actually don't care a heck about you. I had some encounters with it and as a result, i am now immune so such encounters. So the bottom line is, care for friends who genuinely care for you too. Invest your time in friends who deserve it.
On asking Empowering Questions
I recently met up and linked up with a friend on msn and in school. Had a cup of coffee with him in Canteen A and i shared with him this thing about reframing and asking empowering questions instead of disempowering questions.His MSN nick name is
" Will Robo XXX ever get a date this time round?? " This is what in NLP terms we classify as a disempowering question. By asking yourself this question, we restrict the brain to thinking that we can't get a date. The fact about that mind and brain is that, whatever you believe and ask yourself, IT BECOMES YOUR REALITY!
A more empowering question will be
" How can Robo XXX get a date in 2 weeks and have fun in the process ? " Do you see the difference? Lets start to change our lives by asking more empowering and effective questions!
On Jogging and the Standard Chartered Run
Went on monday to sentosa for an evening jog with Joo Khoon and his friend Eric. Ran a total distance of about 7km. Felt really good after the shower, the kind of refreshed feeling. Found out that they actually have a jogger's community of 10 plus people where they meet regulary to jog and etc. I guess it's good because at least for future races, i know who to look for to join together instead of having to find people. Looking forward to know more of them.
Live WIth Passion
Junxiong
# posted by junxiong @ 6:47 PM 
